You need to trust me on this one.
There is always this gut feeling when you start dating someone and deep down you know you love them and they love you. Spiritual people would understand this but it’s something to do with the energy between two people. You love your man with all you have and all of you. Stop allowing these other external factors to rule your relationship. Social media went wild two weeks ago over the “girlfriend allowance” issue. Your man is out there trying to create a future for you and your unborn children and you’re in the streets destroying the little that is left of his dignity. The economy has been rough on everyone and most of our kings have fallen victim. He loves you and he does not need to give you a certain amount of money every month to show that he loves you.
Queen, you deserve to be spoiled and I am not here to tell you to go and date a stingy man. Hell no! I am that don’t be greedy sis. A man should not be out there spending his last dollar to make you happy. It’s the little things that matter. A trip to Bali might mean as much as a walk in the park just before sunset. Be that woman that motivates her man to work hard, chase the bag and invest in his future which might include you if you play your cards right. Do not let social media drive you into wanting the things that do not even matter in life. You are busy putting pressure on poor John from Mufakose to take you to a fancy restaurant every weekend when the little money he is earning as an intern is not enough to get his mom groceries just to show her how much he loves her. Let’s be civil here girl.
All I am trying to say is, if you are out there craving everything those sugar babies are posting online then you are going to lose a good thing and in the process, you will also lose your ability to accept the importance of the sweetest and smallest romantic gestures. Let’s not destroy authentic romance. Correct me if I’m wrong. Thank you